Intended Parents
The Surrogacy Process: A Step-by-Step Guide for Intended Parents
March 5, 2026 · 10 min read · On Fertility Ground Surrogacy
The surrogacy process can feel overwhelming before you understand the steps. Here is the complete roadmap.
Step 1: Consultation
A personal conversation to understand your goals, answer your questions, and determine if OFG is the right fit.
Step 2: Application & Intake
Complete your intended parent profile. This helps us understand your preferences for matching.
Step 3: Matching
We present surrogate profiles based on shared values, compatibility, and your preferences. Both parties must agree to the match.
Step 4: Legal Contracts
Both parties retain independent attorneys. The Gestational Surrogacy Agreement is drafted, negotiated, and signed. The escrow account is fully funded after contract signing — including base compensation, all projected expenses, and a 15% contingency buffer.
Step 5: Medical Process
Surrogate begins medication protocol. Embryo transfer occurs at the fertility clinic. Pregnancy is confirmed 10-14 days later.
Step 6: Pregnancy
Regular prenatal care with the surrogate's OB. OFG coordinates communication and provides support throughout.
Step 7: Pre-Birth Order
Around week 30, your attorney files for the Pre-Birth Order establishing you as the legal parents before birth.
Step 8: Delivery & Going Home
Your baby is born. Your names are on the birth certificate. You go home as a family.
From Our Founder
Bree — Founder & CEO, On Fertility Ground
The length of this process is not a bug. It is a feature. The matching phase takes time because a careful match is a protected match. The legal phase takes time because a thorough contract is a protective contract. The medical clearance takes time because a well-prepared uterus is a healthy uterus.
Every week of this process exists for a reason. If you are the kind of person who needs certainty about timing, I understand. Reach out and let's talk about where you are and whether this is the right time to start.
— Bree | info@onfertilityground.com
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