Intended Parents
How to Get Started with Surrogacy: A Complete Guide for Intended Parents
December 10, 2024 · 8 min read · On Fertility Ground Surrogacy
The decision to pursue surrogacy is both exciting and overwhelming. Whether you've struggled with infertility, are a same-sex couple, or have medical reasons preventing pregnancy, surrogacy offers a path to parenthood. Here's how to get started.
Step 1: Research and Education
Before diving in, take time to understand:
- The difference between gestational and traditional surrogacy
- Legal considerations in your state
- Estimated costs and timelines
- The emotional aspects of the journey
Step 2: Choose the Right Agency
A reputable surrogacy agency in California will:
- Screen and match you with qualified surrogates
- Coordinate medical and legal processes
- Provide ongoing support throughout the journey
- Handle compensation and insurance matters
Step 3: Medical Preparation
You'll work with a fertility clinic to:
- Complete fertility testing
- Create embryos through IVF (using your eggs/sperm or donors)
- Prepare for embryo transfer
Timeline Expectations
The surrogacy process typically takes 15-24 months from start to baby in arms. Patience and trust in the process are key.